I’ve ventured into this conversation before but this time feels different. I’m a different writer than I was the last time I posted a blog with this time of theme.
I’d link to it but I can’t remember how long ago I wrote it. So let’s just dig into why I’m writing this.
Throughout my life there have been things I’ve jumped into and failed. They failed for many reasons; some of them more to do with my work ethic and how much I cared about the topic at the time.
I used to get bored of things easily. I believe that came from immaturity on my part.
But I’d do something then quit when it either got to difficult or I got bored, sometimes both.
With writing, it’s never felt that way. I remember writing in middle school and high school and completely loving every moment of it.
I never thought writing as an avenue I could pursue as a career. This thought was influenced by my biological father’s feelings growing up.
Now that I have someone who supports my writing(thanks Anita)I feel more confident and comfortable doing what I enjoy. Don’t get me wrong, it’s been difficult chasing this writing thing, but worth it.
I write every day, unless there is something planned with my wife and kids.
Writing doesn’t feel like those past failures. It feels like something I’m supposed to do.
I learned a lot about myself, and others, from those failures. But the one thing that became life altering, was that whatever your goals, you have to chase them for yourself. Not your spouse, partner, parents, siblings or anyone else who may have an opinion on your life.
Ultimately, it’s your life and you have see yourself in the mirror every day. Would you rather see yourself happy or doing what someone else believes you should do?
The decision is yours but you have to live with that decision, no one else.
Do what you enjoy because it’s your future, your sanity, and your choice.
Happy writing and get some shit done today, and have a great weekend.