When it comes to writing, I have things I enjoy and things I’m afraid of. You’d think at 44 I’d get over some of them, but they’re still there.
The biggest among these is the enjoyment of horror. Whether it’s writing it, reading it, or watching it, I worry about the judgement aspect.
I guess that happens to a lot of writers, but lately its been creeping into my mind and stopping me from enjoying things that otherwise I would have.
I’ve loved horror since I was a little kid and maybe it’s because I grew up in very conservative environment where horror wasn’t given the respect it deserves. Then there are the people in this world who turn up their nose at horror.
There are so many of those people.
I think it has to do with a lot of that. The being judged part of my brain still has a problem with it.
Take the book I just finished, it wasn’t in the horror genre, mostly because I felt like I needed to try something new.
After writing 10(now 11) books I felt that something wasn’t working. I’d submitted books to agents, short stories for collections and anthologies and heard nothing back. Maybe it’s my writing.
It possibly is. But if it is, I’m going to take the next few months and work on improving that.
I have story ideas all over the place. I can’t stop writing now, it’s the one thing that keeps me going daily, if I were to quit, I’d have to quit other things as well.
Its the feeling of being alone in this process that drives me crazy. I can’t afford to get and editor, especially not during this pandemic. All of our money is focused on continuing to survive.
I’m grateful my wife is able to continue her job and we can continue to have our house, when I know a few people who aren’t in our position.
I’d like to get a push. Some kind of win on this, not that it matters money wise, but for my sanity. it would be helpful.
I’ll keep writing horror and work through the issues I have with sharing them with others.
Sending them to a contest, collection or anthology doesn’t bother me, but having others know what I write does freak me out a bit.
I’m aware that most of my family, other than my wife, won’t read what I write, and maybe I need to get past their approval and stop caring about what they think.
That’s probably for the best.