Category Archive: Parenting

Dec 28

Why I’m No Longer A Slave To Anger

Hold­ing on to anger is like grasp­ing a hot coal with the intent of throw­ing it at some­one else; you are the one who gets burned. — Bud­dha For a long time anger was a part of my life. I was angry at my par­ents for being divorced, myself for not fol­low­ing my dreams and …

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Dec 21

How We’re Teaching Buddhism To Our Kids.

I’ve posted many times about my beliefs in Bud­dhism, but I’ve never dis­cussed what we tell our kids about Bud­dhism or Chris­tian­ity. Here’s a cou­ple of recent sto­ries about our life and rais­ing our kids Bud­dhist. A few weeks ago, my son who’s eight and smarter than he acts and thinks more philo­soph­i­cally than most …

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Dec 17

My Favorite Christmas’ As A Kid

Cella

When I was a lit­tle boy my aunt would stay with us on Christ­mas. Truth be told, she wasn’t really an aunt, but some­one my grand­par­ents were friends with and became part of their fam­ily. When my dad and his sib­lings grew up, she became part of their fam­i­lies. Aunt Cella, which is what we …

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Dec 10

Redefining Who I Am, As My Son Sees Me

Who are you? This is one of the great­est ques­tions man has had. In the end, who we are is of no con­se­quence to what we’ve done with the time we have. We can sit around, watch TV, play on the com­puter or we can do things that a few have done. We can write sto­ries that stretch the …

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Aug 15

Why I Went Vegan.

I’m Bud­dhist and I’ve been try­ing to decide if I could go Vegan or veg­e­tar­ian. This debate had been going on in my head for the last ten years, until two weeks ago when my wife and I watched the movie I’ve linked below. Veg­u­cated Trailer I’ve seen Food, Inc and a lot of other …

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Jun 11

10 Things you can do to help your bullied kid.

When I was bul­lied in school I always wished there was some­one who could have helped me. A teacher, another stu­dent or one of my par­ents. But I never told them about how bad it was, they’re only find­ing out now. I’ve been think­ing about what I could  do to help another kid that is taking …

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Feb 15

Where did you get your parenting skills?

Are our par­ent­ing skills set? When I was in fourth grade my dad bought an expen­sive pair of walkie talkies. He let me use them for a few days and I acci­dently broke one of them. The only rea­son I remem­ber this is because I was spanked and put in the cor­ner for an hour, …

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Feb 06

That night, music and something new

When he was 2 years old he was bit by a dog. We were wor­ried he would have mus­cle dam­age and wouldn’t be able to use his right arm. I remem­ber that night like it was yes­ter­day. We had let him stay at my big sis­ters for the night. It was the first time he would …

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Jan 23

Las Vegas Lunar New Year with my kids

Took the kids to the strip today, it’s some­thing I rarely do since I work on the strip and don’t like going there unless a.) there is fam­ily in town and I’m play­ing tour guide or b.) I have to be at work. Nei­ther of these applied today, but it is the Lunar New Year …

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Jan 23

Dear Mr. W., remember me?

                                  What is it that makes you the writer you are. Over the last week this is some­thing that has run through my mind like Phei­dip­pi­des. It is some­thing I never thought of, though it is some­thing I know …

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