Category Archive: Life

May 20

Writing Through The Mask

When I was grow­ing up I had a father who con­trolled what I did, what I wore and where we went on vaca­tion. When I started get­ting bul­lied in school it felt like my dad was at school with me, weird I know, but that’s the way it felt. In Hid­ing Through­out my life I’ve found …

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May 13

Must Have Rules for Writers and Everyone Else

  Yes­ter­day was Mother’s Day in The States and when I think about my mom I think about how much she’s guided me in my life and my writ­ing. She’s always stood by me and some­times those peo­ple are hard to find in your life. There are things you can do to gar­ner sup­port from people …

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May 06

Decide, Write and Walk the Path

  Last week a friend of mine said she doesn’t have time to do the things she wants to do with her kids, a career and she’s stopped wor­ry­ing about dat­ing.. I see peo­ple who give up on the life they want because they think they can’t have it. They’re wrong, it just takes some work. …

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Apr 22

6 Ways to Get Passed the “IF” in Your Life

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Dec 28

Why I’m No Longer A Slave To Anger

Hold­ing on to anger is like grasp­ing a hot coal with the intent of throw­ing it at some­one else; you are the one who gets burned. — Bud­dha For a long time anger was a part of my life. I was angry at my par­ents for being divorced, myself for not fol­low­ing my dreams and …

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Dec 26

Are You Being A Slave?

When I was in my early twen­ties I was angry. Angry about what was going on in my life. Angry at my dad and mom for their divorce when I was eight at myself for being dis­charged from Marine boot camp and for not hav­ing some­one to share my life with. All of these things made …

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Dec 24

Are You Living The Life You Want?

Fri­day we had the whole, “The world is end­ing, Oh my god, what are we going to do”, thing. But it got me to think­ing about how sus­cep­ti­ble we are to things we read, see and watch. I know peo­ple who missed work because they hon­estly believed the world was going to end. Is that really …

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Dec 21

How We’re Teaching Buddhism To Our Kids.

I’ve posted many times about my beliefs in Bud­dhism, but I’ve never dis­cussed what we tell our kids about Bud­dhism or Chris­tian­ity. Here’s a cou­ple of recent sto­ries about our life and rais­ing our kids Bud­dhist. A few weeks ago, my son who’s eight and smarter than he acts and thinks more philo­soph­i­cally than most …

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Dec 17

My Favorite Christmas’ As A Kid

Cella

When I was a lit­tle boy my aunt would stay with us on Christ­mas. Truth be told, she wasn’t really an aunt, but some­one my grand­par­ents were friends with and became part of their fam­ily. When my dad and his sib­lings grew up, she became part of their fam­i­lies. Aunt Cella, which is what we …

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Nov 09

Damn, It Feels Good To Be Dark.

Your Inner Dark­ness Some­times dark­ness has a way of find­ing you, find­ing who you are inside and manip­u­lat­ing it. These dark forces come from within each of us. We all have our dark­ness, the things that if we were to tell peo­ple they’d lock us up or the peo­ple with the white coats and hug-me jackets …

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